Archana Jain is the Founder of Florian Foundation, Florian Spa N Salon, India Brainy Beauty and Author of Two Books She’s Unlimited and Unboxing Beauty, She Believe in Success and Happy Life so it’s Time to Celebrate You. The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. Just Believe in Yourself and Love the Imperfect You.
No one has experienced life exactly as you have, and therefore, no one is shaped exactly as you are. Many of us share similar ideas and values but maintain a completely unique perspective. Yet we lose precious energy trying to convince or persuade others to understand us or see things as we do. It feels good to be understood. It can serve as validation and comfort.
But it’s no one’s job to confirm or mirror your energy. Expecting the same energy from another will make you feel isolated, disappointed, lonely, or out of place. Because it’s impossible to relate to another entirely, this expectation can also limit how well you get to know them. Perhaps they want to be seen and appreciated for who they are. And not just be seen for the similarities they share.
The beautiful thing about living authentically is knowing that your way of being and expressing yourself is unconditional and doesn’t depend on others. The key is to be so comfortable in who you are that you can hold space for others as they are. Your energy is meant to shine on its own. The rain doesn’t seek permission before falling, and the sun doesn’t choose when or what to illuminate. Similarly, you must wait for no one’s approval but your own.
We’re all trying to figure it out. All we can do is support each other on the journey inward with radical acceptance and appreciation. Why is it important to enjoy the everyday moments of life? Everyday moments are some of the little experiences that life brings to us. When we start paying attention to and enjoying these moments, we always feel positive about life. Most of us wait for a big moment to feel happy. Whether it is a goal we want to achieve or a day we have been waiting for, we do not see any value in life until it is fulfilled. So, in waiting for that big moment of happiness, we ignore the joys that life brings us daily. Find happiness in the small moments of life. From the rising of the sun to the twinkling of the stars, every day of life brings many moments of joy; once you acknowledge it, you find many reasons to be happy in life.
